I want to thank you because it has caused me to recognize and appreciate the fathering things that my husband does. Things that I have not really understood that happen between fathers and kids. Because of this understanding, I am able to encourage and thank and “butt out” when I need to, which makes my husband feel supported and that he is doing a good job as a father. When he feels like he is doing a good job, it allows him freedom to be a dad.